Its Wednesday and a Good Wednesday at that. Coming from a enlightened Tuesday. Why? , you may ask . Well I’m truly not sure like , I said to my Friend Catherine last night in Line Dancing. Gosh Yesterday in class I felt astonishingly at peace with myself. I can only put it down to a complexity of many amazing pushes I’ve made , inter connecting with friends, customers, wrapping Christmas presents, miss you messages from the guys at Andy’s Man Club “ Chorley “ .
Working with Phil yesterday helped too. Phil use to work with my at Blue Skies Gardening Services. He left To go self employed a couple of years ago, he was a big loss, but hey we’ve reconnected through fellow man to man human connection. Often having supportive human chats and we’ve become closer once again. He’s a sparkly person but like all of us , have down emotional times. This is where our chats come in vice versa .
We are also going to two gigs together in the coming year. Firstly Gretchen Peters on her farewell tour, as she visits Lytham St’ Anne’s , which is only down the road for us. I’ve also amazingly bought tickets to our country rock star Kip Moore. Oh made up on this one x.
So what else has happened or area’s I’ve pushed in.. let’s see. I had ideas of doing lots of work around the house or more outside work. Instead of waiting 2 years or more like I have already for family members to do the work , I’ve decided to learn and do it myself, perhaps with a little help from friends. I’m most certainly going to do.. There will be one thing I’ll have to get a professional chimney man in for, because if you’ve read any of my posts before, I don’t do heights. Haha! .
I’ve also a session with my human counsel at the end of the week, maybe that’s enlightened me. Or maybe it’s because I listened to Jay Shetty’s podcast yesterday with guest Dr Julie Smith. Dr Julie says to “ if you want to be good at something!, DO IT MORE! “ . Well that’s Linedancing sorted then! 😁😂. It was very down to earth , fruitful to my learning psyche . We can apply this to positive thinking too. Or anything you want more of in your life. .
So getting back to last night in dancing I was very at peace, relaxed and it was totally weird for me but inspiring too. Weird because it’s not my usual self. I’d love to keep this feeling moving forward. My friend in dancing last night just said ‘ just don’t overthink it. Catherine is right.. as many other say too. Breaking the cycle of bad , negative thoughts takes an almighty push.
One positive step leads to another and another. Same with the other side of it. Recently I’ve been to hell and back with over emotional thinking. All my different experiences in life. Human connections , once in the midst of a negative stream , anything that had an inkling of being scary was made into something quite terrifying . What a incredible feeling of the different sort.
It’s good I’ve recognised what’s going on but I’m not sure if I’ve dealt with that particular moment, apart from my positive self moving in , EVERYTHING FEELS BETTER. Relaxing your thoughts and recognising what’s happening is a good start..
I’ve still a few bit and pieces to get for Christmas . Still some gardens to tend at work , if the weather will let me.. haha.
Other thoughts are I’m looking to put some sort of logo/ advertising on my van for Andy’s Man club . I think it’s important to keep the message in the forefront of peoples minds. That men have a place to go to , to get things off their chests. A totally free service and the men who facilitate the evening are fantastic at keeping it all going. I’m just waiting for Southport to gain their services. It probably be based at the football club as in most towns. But nothing has been said as far as I know. I love the Chorley group as the facilitators make it so friendly. Though they are not a counselling service, if you need that more of a supportive service, you’ll have find a good one that you can work with.
How are you creating your beautiful life at the moment? . Who are you connecting with and who do you need to because you haven’t in a while? . Keep the channels of friendships open , keep connecting, there’s nothing like it . Loving you as I do. Re jig your thoughts if you have too. If you feel you need to have boundaries, have them! . If you want to learn something new, give it go ! . Singing come to mind for me , though my wife says I have an awful voice! 😂💪🥰😁.
Do it with an open heart .
Love you for trying to make a difference. Take care and SMILE 😊🌟✨😁.
