How you doing on this Boxing Day? . Gosh I found yesterday to be incredibly tough. I wouldn’t say it was emotionally charged but something inside was saying gee whiz is this what Christmas days about? . Oh gee whiz , the many trials and tribulations of family life. I came into this day thinking I’m definitely going to write a book. I can say I’m not impressed with This day. After a glorious buildup of giving my all into buying gifts for people, really thinking about the person I was buying for..
The most splendid thing, the giving part, the thinking about our friends . At least my friends have something wonderful to add to their lives. My wife too had some great goodies to open. Though I found it tough this year getting going into the Christmas spirit, once in motion the joy began to flow. Visiting my friends and customers has been quite a delightful time.
I’ve tried writing before this and there is a big piece in the draft stage. It may as well stay there now , or I may use it for something in the future like a book . We’ll see hey?
Bank holiday Monday is here and my mood hasn’t changed. But then it’s the same thing going on. That’s me putting up with shit . Then the hell , it’s my life. Having to ignore stuff to get on with my life. But am I living my life? . I guess in a family setting it’s tough. Many just wouldn’t put up with it. Hmm .. I’m not quite sure what I’m going to do.. Have words quite possibly. But the ADHD thing, is a kinda protected subject.
We had a incident where by we were told off for buying one Grandson a scooter for a present and the other child something different! . Oh for blinking heck’s sake. It’s just getting ridiculous this Christmas present lark!
The other subjects involving people who should know better is another kettle of fish.
On top of this I’ve extra pressure piled on with my Dad falling off a pair of step ladders today. He’s a complete fool when it’s comes to his DIY. He’s always fiddling or trying to fix something. Now he’s in hospital with five broken blinking ribs. He’s in huge lot of pain and thankfully the hospital are doing their best for him.. 90 years old and he’s still thinking he’s 20 I suppose.Is it a man thing ? , because we also have this same scenario with a problem in our home. A man in his early fifties still thinking he’s invincible or a teenager. It’s not me ! . Haha. Oh yeah taking responsibility for anything in life isn’t what this person does either. Taking the piss is more like it. I dearly hope next Christmas isn’t like this one for flips sake! . Right now I feel like getting a cottage rented for Christmas week next time around. I’m sick of the hassle. Or maybe I ought to be more ASSERTIVE! . Maybe only then things will change.. 💪💥👊.
Anyway guys I hope your Christmas was way better than mine. Though I can’t completely be hacked off with it. I’ve had some great moments with friends , family and giving gifts to my treasured ones🤗😍⭐️.
Sending you my amazing wishes and goodness..
Take it easy and keep shining xx
Adrian.😊
🐾Edited. 👊all words written in my own experiences 💥
