Gosh I’m tired after a swashbuckling weekend with the grandkids. What weather too, sunny and blue skies. What can I say. The last two days, well from Friday evening to Sunday late afternoon was eventful. We’ve had lots of love and laughter. Tears too.. . Quiet , cute times with Alfie sat on my lap, oh just bliss. Only the ADHD kid to spoil things. It’s left me exhausted and slightly stressed out. I’ve honestly thought ’ what have I done to deserve this’ .
A naughty child in our midst. He simply doesn’t know right from wrong. Or does he just do silly things? . Probably both. He certainly creates a crazy time. Maybe it’s us Grandparent’s who don’t know how to deal with him. Well I certainly don’t. I admit it. I’m blinking lost with it.
Anyway let’s move on to happier times. Saturday we all ventured out to the local Owl 🦉 and birds of prey sanctuary. We wanted to go there because little Alfie loves Owls 🦉. We had adventures there organised by the site managers. There we were looking for clues to the puzzles set for us. It was great seeing the boys have so much fun. It was fantastic watching Alfie take photographs of the birds with his own little camera. He’s certainly a sweet, adventurous little boy. Though I found him to be a bewildered , as we sat in the audience with him on my lap watching the flying of the owls and hawks . For me it was a fabulous moment that he trusted me as he snuggled up close. Very similar to our Alex situation, but that’s another story and a big one at that..
We had one child who wasn’t interested in the birds, hmm.. I wonder who that was? !😁 . He was like that when we took him to Blackpool zoo. Zilch interest in animals, just wants to run around. That just must be the way he is wired. As that’s what it is I believe. He has a different understanding of things.. We do need to find an interest for him, whether it’s dancing or running, maybe both. He ain’t coming Line dancing folks , so don’t even suggest it😂.
Today ‘ Sunday ‘ , we had fun in the garden, making a assault course. We had lunch in the garden too, then we went to the park or the playground. That was fun and loving too. Though to have a day without ADHD outbursts and people loosing their emotions , this would be good. He certainly drives me crazy! . I feel I need help with knowing how to deal with him..
Any solutions please? …
I’d like to end this in a happier tone..
Hope you guys had a wonderful weekend.. I hope you’ve got up to all sorts lovely things .. do tell ! .. Oh I forgot I’m talking to myself here🤣😜. One can get locked away for that.. Sweet dreams to you, and me 😂😁😜🥰❤️⭐️👍👊.
Positively me xx
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💥All words written in my own experiences 💥
